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Heart Speaks to Heart

  • Holy Family Passionist Retreat Center 303 Tunxis Road West Hartford, CT, 06107 United States (map)

Heart Speaks to Heart: Correspondence as Spiritual Practice 

Contemplative Enrichment Day
Saturday, November 19, 2022
9:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. (ET)
Judith Valente and Bro. Paul Quenon, O.C.S.O. 

Through the ages, correspondence has been an important contemplative practice to recognize and share the presence of God in our lives. Thomas Merton considered his nearly 20,000 letters as an "apostolate of friendship." We’ll look at how Merton's most engaging letters inspired a years-long contemplative exchange between Brother Paul and Judith and how it might do the same for you. Brother Paul will also take us on a virtual tour of Gethsemani, share his contemplative photographs and poetry, and engage in dialogue about contemplative living.

This program will be offered both in-person and online via Zoom. Information on how to access the program on Zoom will be sent to participants in advance.

Br. Paul is planning on being at Holy Family in person. Due to unexpected personal circumstances, Judith will be joining us via Zoom.

This program will include a morning and an afternoon session of Centering Prayer.

Offering: $65 (includes lunch)


Presenter Profiles

Judith Valente

Judith Valente is the author of several spirituality books, including two co-authored with Bro. Paul Quenon. The most recent is How to Be: A Monk and a Journalist Reflect on Living & Dying, Purpose & Prayer, Forgiveness & Friendship. She is an award-winning journalist and poet and a lay Benedictine Oblate who guides frequent contemplative retreats. Judith has written a contemporary guide on The Rule of St. Benedict, titled How to Live.


Bro. Paul Quenon, O.C.S.O.

Bro. Paul Quenon, O.C.S.O., has been a monk at the Abbey of Gethsemani for 60 years, the first years of which were spent under the guidance of his novice master, Thomas Merton. He has written nine collections of poetry and an award-winning memoir, In Praise of the Useless Life. He is a talented photographer, and a compilation of his poems with photographs, See the Moment, Feel the Moment, will be published in 2023. 


Earlier Event: November 13
Sunday Eucharist
Later Event: November 19
The Path of Conscious Grieving